Friday, June 25, 2010

Mother of two special needs children in Rio Verde

She came with her other older children and two youngest (age 4 and 8). She was seeking answers what would make her 4 year old walk. She was concerned because she was not walking or talking. By observing them it was clear they had Down´s syndrome. What can I say to a mother who is here in Ecuador caring for special needs children that will be a lifetime commitment? Her 8 year old son with Down´s began to walk when his younger sister was born. We had to tell her that they would be slow to learn and possible never talk. I discussed signing but it was not well received. However, at the same time, I think the child probably eventually will walk because she was able to support her own weight. I cannot imagine the task of a mother caring for them in the jungle/mountains.

With God, are you handling the tasks set before you? Sometimes we see those in need and probably hinder (or baby) them somewhat such that they may not reach their full potential (even if that is not the same as everyone else). But at the same time, they will need more care and encouragement than others. I think the youngest child will do more when forced to walk or stand instead of being carried. How often do we look at our own circumstances and think we cannot do it or prefer to be carried? It was many emotions in one event.

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